Read the article here http://www.ajc.com/business/content/business/stories/2009/01/08/flynt_porn_bailout.html?imw=Y . Should the government bail out the porno industry?
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Added by Lei on January 8, 2009 at 5:31pm —
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I am 30 and ...I just don't want all the fluff and fuss...I am thinking about eloping, is this is good or bad idea? Do you know anyone who has eloped? What was the result?
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Added by Lei on January 6, 2009 at 5:13pm —
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would you be ready if he came back this second?
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Added by Lei on January 6, 2009 at 4:52pm —
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I hope to finish my masters degree - be engaged or married - become a more grounded person...what about you?
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Added by Lei on January 1, 2009 at 1:38am —
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Added by Lei on December 22, 2008 at 8:30pm —
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I think that black women can be independant to a fault. Independance infers that you don't need anyone. If someone knows that you don't need him, why should he stay?
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Added by Lei on December 20, 2008 at 2:20pm —
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Could you be abstinent with someone and not "try him out" before he married you?
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Added by Lei on December 20, 2008 at 1:24pm —
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Vent here - let it all out, any hurts, hard feelings, judgements, unforgiveness, bitterness, ....Don't take it with you in 2009. After all, we have a Black president...anything can happen :).
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Added by Lei on December 19, 2008 at 9:19pm —
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Black women are notoriously overweight. Many black women are clearly overweight and consider themselves "thick". Should we take a hint from white women and start taking better care of our bodies? Why don't we do so now?
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Added by Lei on December 19, 2008 at 7:04am —
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(From a brother on the Essence site- I respect his opinion and wanted black women's take on his perspective)
Now to my point. I cannot speak for all black men, certainly not for the NBA and other sports professionals but as an regular joe, my take on why successful black men go for white women is simply of the fact that black women do not embrace educated black men. Meaning, a black man, young, in school, studying to become someone successful in life. To him, 2008 and possibly 2009, young black…
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Added by Lei on December 16, 2008 at 3:20pm —
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The NAACP doesn't have a lot of support from younger generations. For one, I think that they should revamp the whole organization, starting with changing the name. What do you think?
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Added by Lei on December 16, 2008 at 11:30am —
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Can you be a TRUE Christian and still commit fornication which is a major no-no as indicated in the bible? Are most Christian women committing fornication? What do you think?
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Added by Lei on December 15, 2008 at 4:35pm —
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I have not been involved with this person for 6 years and I found out that he is getting married. I don't have feelings for him - so why do I feel funny?
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Added by Lei on December 15, 2008 at 8:06am —
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Many women have created this proverbial "list" that they want their potential partner to have. He must be tall, dark, or light, educated, with a home, no kids et cetera. Is there anything that you are willing to bend on if he fits your most important needs?
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Added by Lei on December 13, 2008 at 12:31pm —
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Personally, I am a little old school and would NEVER consider asking a man to marry me. Aside from it being romanitic, it is even a tad but biblical. Would you ever ask a man to marry you? Have you done this before? What was the result?
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Added by Lei on December 8, 2008 at 9:45am —
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Okay so you get him a $100 shirt and you get a chia pet or a Walmart earring set. Are you upset? Is it really the thought that counts or are gifts an exstention of how someone feels about you? Continue
Added by Lei on December 6, 2008 at 6:59pm —
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I had a good debate with my significant other about why many black men flock to Brazil for women, this is my side of the argument:
1. Black man state that they go because of how respectful the women are. Negro please, if you want someone subserviant, why not go to Africa or Mexico, Japan or China, where women tend to be that way too? Thhe flight prices are the same, the land is just as beautiful.
2. Black men go to Brazil because the women have Black womens attribute without being "all black"…
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Added by Lei on December 3, 2008 at 11:30am —
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I must admit that the last episode was very entertaining, but it may as well have been conducted by hood chicks. Sheree and DesShawn were the only ones that kept their composure. I actually felt sorry for Kim because she really did not have it in her to defend herself, These women are well off and find the time to fight and yell like street chicks. I am from Atlanta and I hate that these women, who are not from here, were chosen to respresent my city. The women acted no different from the chicks…
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Added by Lei on November 26, 2008 at 6:48am —
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I remember as a little chocolate girl feeling less pretty than my beautiful light skrinned cousin with long hair. I've also been told that I am pretty for a dark skinned woman. This is all silliness to me. At the same time, I have light skinned friends who I have seen be harassed for no apparent reason from darker skinned females. I am personally sick of the whole tirade---what do you think....
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Added by Lei on November 22, 2008 at 6:30pm —
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This post was prompted by a post on iseecolor.com a website initiated by author/radio host Michael Baisden. The reponses on the blog were from white women, black men, black women, and white men. The comments from black women ranged from hurt and anger to some women completely just not dating black men. What do you think? Should Black women just face the fact that Brothers are leaving us in droves?
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Added by Lei on November 13, 2008 at 7:39pm —
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