past journal entry

Up until my early twenties, I really never understood domestic violence.

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My siblings weren't raised around that sort of thing. My dad had rule in the house that said he was the only… Continue

(These are more rambling from past conversations with friends, Enjoy)

All our lives, we are told we have to do things for people.

We have to raise our kids.

We have to take care of the house.

We have to make sure our mens have what they want.

We have to make everybody happy.

We have to not be sick.

We have to use up all our strength to make everybody else strong.

So we ask, when is it our time?

When can we actually have something to ourselves because we have to give out so much,… Continue

previously posted at How To Love A Black Woman Blog

Every time I look at a guy while he’s talking his “game” to me. I wonder, “Does he get it?” And if I ask that question all of a sudden, would he even understand what I’m talking about.

I know that as he’s talking he’s probably (one) trying to picture me naked, (two) wondering if I’m as freaky as the books that I write and/or (three) wondering how fast he can get that freak in the nearest bed.

While I’m looking at him talk, I’m wonderi… Continue

against married parents and no children people trying to give single parents advise about raising children. that's a whole 'nother arena you don't know 'nah 'bout, Beo-yotch!

against women whose hair looks better than the way their children are dressed.

against gold teeth. whichever woman encouraged a man that was attractive that's just nasty!

against calling for a number and not having a pen to write things down

against asking stupid questions and not expecting a stupid answer. (ex: who is… Continue

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