Essence Magazine

Dating & Relationships

Information

Dating & Relationships

Website: http://www.essence.com/relationships/
Members: 390
Latest Activity: 19 hours ago

ESSENCE EXCLUSIVE VIDEO: Mr. & Mrs. Hornsby

Discussion Forum

Jessica Lukendriss

my b/f and I/white girls.

Started by Jessica Lukendriss Oct 29.

Captain Church ["Scotland"]

~RED ALERT**URGENT 2009~

Started by Captain Church ["Scotland"] Oct 13.

Comment Wall

Add a Comment

You need to be a member of Dating & Relationships to add comments!

Treina Comment by Treina on March 31, 2009 at 8:19pm
At the present time i'm going through a divorce. I've been out of the dating game for the past 8 years. I meet men all the time. I never give them my number, I get a number from them but, I never call. I don't know what kind of relationship i'm interested in being in with a man(i.e. commentment,friends w/benefits, marriage type). I guess when the right man comes along I will know but, until then the one thing i do know is that he will be a God fearing man.
Too Blessed To Be Stressed.
Anthony K. Williams Comment by Anthony K. Williams on March 31, 2009 at 11:42am
Hello Family,
I invite you to visit www.preventorstopcheating.com and take a look at the new controversial book causing a stir between men and women. The title of the book is 10 Ways To Prevent Or Stop Your Good Man From Cheating. It's a book focused on the preservation of relationships and families. Ladies, most of you don't realize the power you have. Yes, some people will cheat regardless of what you do. They are not men, they are fools. But, ladies when God sends you that good man you've been praying for, many times you allow the unresolved hurt and bitterness from past relationships to infiltrate your relationship with this good man and if it goes unchecked you will eventually run that good man off. This book is going to show you 10 simple things to address that will keep that good man's attention on you and only you. Be blessed!

9780615260099_frontcover.XYZ.jpg
Agustin Crawford Comment by Agustin Crawford on March 8, 2009 at 5:08pm
Get Paid to Enjoy Life
CertifiedDiva Comment by CertifiedDiva on February 21, 2009 at 12:09pm

The Fool Proof Diva

↑ Grab this Headline Animator

Cardell Comment by Cardell on February 16, 2009 at 11:01am
Ive been waiting all my life for " A GIRL LIKE YOU "


Cardell
Quantcast
Apostle Truth Comment by Apostle Truth on February 13, 2009 at 4:28pm


All I am looking for is one good sister.
Terry G Alexander Comment by Terry G Alexander on January 23, 2009 at 3:19pm
HI DEBBIE I CAN ONLY TELL YOU WHAT GOD CAN DO IF YOU LET HIM
YES I'M A MAN THAT'S BEEN THROUGH SOME OF THE SAME THINGS
THE WOMEN ON THIS PAGE ARE TALKING ABOUT. THE AVERAGE MAN
IS NOT GOING TO GET ON THIS SIGHT AND TELL ANY WOMAN WHAT THEY
WANT TO HEAR. SOMEONE TOLD ME THE DISTANCE BETWEEN A PROBLEM AND A SOLUTION IS THE DISTANCE BETWEEN YOURS KNEES
AND THE FLOOR. GOD'S PLAN ARE NOT OUR PLANS NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOUR INTENTIONS ARE--GOD'S PLANS ARE NOT OUR PLANS
FOLLOW THE PATH HE SET BEFORE YOU TO YOUR DESTINY.
I WAS LOOKING FOR LOVE BUT MY PROBLEM WAS AS ALL MEN THAT
THINK THEIR LEVEL HEADED, GOD SENT ME THREE BEAUTIFUL KIDS.
NOW I'VE GOT THREE LOVES INSTEAD OF ONE. THEIR MOTHER DIED
AND I HAD TO STAND UP AND BE THAT MAN. SO TO ALL ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE AND LET GOD DO THE REST. I BET IF YOU PUT HIM FIRST INSTEAD OF THAT MAN EVERYONE ON THIS SIGHT WILL FIND WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR. MAY GOD BLESS
Crystal Comment by Crystal on January 23, 2009 at 12:32pm
Debbie,

Have you decided what you want (i.e. to date or be married)?
If you are looking for marriage then does this man meet your standards?
If no then why invest anymore time? We as woman have to learn to say what we are looking for up front. Do you know what he is looking for?
Jeannette Comment by Jeannette on January 23, 2009 at 11:56am
Hi Debbie,

My sugggestion about your 53 year old male friend is to just ask him. You really don't know what the real situation is until you ask. After 7 months datng him, you should definitely know. If not having a car bothers you that bad then maybe you should seek someone else. I once dated a man who didn't have a car only because he did not drive. He had his own place but felt that because he lived in an area that had ample transportation and he felt there was no need for him to drive. And I must admit, he lived a fulfilling life. However, in your situation, your friend lives with his sister, therefore, you don't know what his situation is until you just ask him and determine what you want to do from there.

Hope this helps!
CiCi Comment by CiCi on January 23, 2009 at 11:39am
Debbie, Your situation seems familiar to me. The last man that approached me lived with his mother, had no vehicle and 3 children by 2 different women. He kept all of that information from me, outside of his living situation, until we had decided to see each other. Once I found out those things, I left the situation alone. I feel as women, our standards should be set for what we will and will not accept from a man. Situations aside caused by the economy, if a man is in constant hard times, he does not have himself together.

You will be in my prayers. I hope that God will shed light on your situation and see you through it.
 

Members (390)

sabrina Jurgen Brul Shanelle T CertifiedDiva simply beautiful Sabrina Carnell Sunt97 ladymadea NICOLE GILBERT Striving2achieve Tekoa Christopher vander Melissmo God's Will Frantrele Exquisite the Coach sweetgeorgiapeach Shalom Nadira Chase Tammara raej Ms Yvonne Henderson Raymond Sturgis Newness amber Mr.Henry79 Van Mz. Swagga Lee beautifulBYdesign
 
 

About

Members

  • Gideon Emmanuel Moncrieffe
  • Dr. Hair
  • Cocoman1975
  • Essence Magazine
  • Tequila Lamar
  • Nefitieri
  • Joelthebarber
  • DANIELLE
  • JESSICA
  • Angie
  • Vonda L Hawkins
  • Yoli Cooper

ANNOUNCEMENTS:



 

© 2009   Created by Essence Magazine on Ning.   Create a Ning Network!

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Privacy  |  Terms of Service

Sign in to chat!