MICHEAL JORDAN'S SISTER ACCUSES FATHER OF RAPE
In a new memoir, Deloris Jordan, Michael Jordan’s sister, accuses their father, James Jordan of rape.
In her new book, “In My Family’s Shadow,” she gives a detailed chain of events, according to the pancherareport.com
“Ending eight years after it first began and five years after losing my virginity to my father, it scares me to think how much longer the abuse would have went on had I not spit out the dreadful truth to my mother during one of our many heated disagreements. Disagreements that were sometimes anything but pleasant and often featured no indication of love between the two of us.
So as she ranted and raved about how no slutty daughter of hers better get pregnant and bring any bastard children into her house. I finally heard myself saying: “If I am so much of a slut, why don’t you keep your husband out of my bed?”
When I finally found the courage to let my father’s deeds tumble from my lips, I did not know what to expect, but I never in a million years would have guessed that my mother would turn on me. Her words of betrayals did far more damage to me than my father’s deeds. They spoke volumes to the fact that she really did not care about me, which my father obviously knew. It is because she was so expressive with her dislike for me that probably made my father know he could get away with violating me.
My father confessed his actions on the same day that I disclosed them to my mother. And on that frightful day of admission, I watched my mother, looking for a sign, any sign that she cared about me.
The memory of my father whispering in my ear during the wee hours of the night about the beauty of my body has played over and over in my head for many years. And as if that has not been incapacitating enough by itself, having to comprehend the fact that more often than not, he had just gotten out of the bed he shared with my mother to find his way to my bedroom has just added to the realization of the painful situation.”
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In her new book, “In My Family’s Shadow,” she gives a detailed chain of events, according to the pancherareport.com
“Ending eight years after it first began and five years after losing my virginity to my father, it scares me to think how much longer the abuse would have went on had I not spit out the dreadful truth to my mother during one of our many heated disagreements. Disagreements that were sometimes anything but pleasant and often featured no indication of love between the two of us.
So as she ranted and raved about how no slutty daughter of hers better get pregnant and bring any bastard children into her house. I finally heard myself saying: “If I am so much of a slut, why don’t you keep your husband out of my bed?”
When I finally found the courage to let my father’s deeds tumble from my lips, I did not know what to expect, but I never in a million years would have guessed that my mother would turn on me. Her words of betrayals did far more damage to me than my father’s deeds. They spoke volumes to the fact that she really did not care about me, which my father obviously knew. It is because she was so expressive with her dislike for me that probably made my father know he could get away with violating me.
My father confessed his actions on the same day that I disclosed them to my mother. And on that frightful day of admission, I watched my mother, looking for a sign, any sign that she cared about me.
The memory of my father whispering in my ear during the wee hours of the night about the beauty of my body has played over and over in my head for many years. And as if that has not been incapacitating enough by itself, having to comprehend the fact that more often than not, he had just gotten out of the bed he shared with my mother to find his way to my bedroom has just added to the realization of the painful situation.”
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Permalink Reply by DeeDee on -
regardless of who this ,think that i could of been any young child,you will be surprised how many young girls have been abused by thier care givers/family members.I have 2 girls and would be i jail if anyone fooled with my kids...
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Permalink Reply by Frederick Penn is Mr. Confidence on -
It's SICK, SICK, SICK!!!
I hear this story in my work every week.
I also hear about the no good for nothing step-fathers doing even worse things to their wife's daughters as young as 11 yrs. old. I hate to hear mothers taking up for these sick men. And the mothers are just as SICK as the men they marry.
Frederick Penn, The Godfather of Self Esteem
www.iseeinc.org
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Permalink Reply by veneitta on -
This type of abuse occurs daily. I never knew a little girl who would come over on week-ends and stay with me, was being sexually abused by her aunt's boyfriend, The child was five years old. I was told by another person what was happening with my cousin's niece and that crazy b$%^, allowed this to happen to that child, apparently she was afraid of being alone. As I sit here and think back, there were no signs shown of any sexual abuse, but it was true. I heard some details, of how the child could use her body better than a grown woman. The child never came over again. This story being told, by Michael Jordan's brought back the memory of that little girl. I know when, I was a young girl, my mother did not allow, my sister's and I to spend the nights at other people's homes.
I cannot fully comprehend the reason why women protect these animals, and then degrade the daughter's. Is a young girl between the ages of 5-14 in fault of sexual abuse? Being a mother with one daughter, I always kept my eyes opened when she was growing up and I did not allow any man to stay in my house. I do have two son's. Now, my children are adults. I know the type of person I am. If my daughter would have told me, she was being abused by my mate. Oh, Jesus! It is just appalling! The only thing with this story, the father is deceased. Yes, many families keep sexual assault, and incest a secret, because of shame and breaking up the family.
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Permalink Reply by Debbie on -
In a strange funny way, this mess all makes sense now. The Jordan family has secrets out the ying-yang-remember when the father was killed and it came out he and the son (Michael) had issues with gambling? The mother was always closer to her son, hated Juanita the wife, and was never seen with her own daughter! This woman had issues w/ other females and the men in her life for a long time. I pray that when she answers for her sins, she will be able to tell the Lord why she refuse to cherish one of His most precious gifts.
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Permalink Reply by Shermaine Marshall on -
So sadd and she held this all this time. This pandora's box will unleash so much hatred and bitterness and sorrow. I hate hearing this. Whether she is Michael's sister or just anybody's sister, the impact is still the same. DAYUM!!!
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Permalink Reply by Nandi on -
I"m real sad to hear it. I'm sad for the daughter who had to live with that even folk were like talking about the man when he was killed as he was. This happens so much in our community. A child tells, most of the time, the child isn't believed and that is so wrong. It takes courage for a child to speak out, and when we don't come through for them, they don't speak on it no more. that ain't right either.
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Permalink Reply by Crystal on -
This is so sad. But at least she has a complete memory and can heal from it. There are some many woman out there that have suppressed the memory of their abuse to be able to survive but have flashbacks of moments of their abuse. There is no resolve for them because there is not enough memory to determine who the abuser was or claim abuse and question a parent figure about abuse.
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Permalink Reply by hue seo on
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egardless of who this ,think that i could of been any young child,you will be surprised how many young girls have been abused by thier care givers/family members.I have 2 girls and would be i jail if anyone fooled with my kids
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