MEN'S GAME AND A WOMEN'S REACTION
Ladies this is the real deal. I spent many hours compiling these situations in which you should let a man go. Sorry vulgarity needed. Give me your opinion
Ladies I decided to break down some things because it seems as though women are allowing niggas to take them for granted... I don't understand why bUt it seems as though women have forgotten that they are the QUEENS and we are the PRIZE. We are Adams right rib, we bear children into the world, we make the sex explosive. I mean the hand is ok but it aint got nothing on the vagina. But yet it seems as though men are reaping the benefits. Women are chasing their asses around. Women are asking them out on dates and paying FOR MEN!!!!! Women are begging them for sex and crying when they leave your asses. What the fuck ladies we are the PRIZE not them. So I've gathered up some situations that are indicators to LET HIS ASS GO.....
SITUATION #1: When you meet a potential suitor and he says this to you: "I have a girlfriend but were about to break up. then you say " Well here's my e-mail address NOT UR NUMBER, call me when your "REALLY" SINGLE. Or if he says: " I'm seperated right now." You say.." I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you marriage works out and hall ass out of there.
WHY?: Ladies if the man is seperated his ass is still married and the chances that he's going to actual go ahead with the divorce and be in a committed relationship with you are slim to none. What he will do if you ALLOW him is have his fun with you and then decide he's going to work it out with his wife and kids and leave you feeling like an USED ASSHOLE...LADIES YOUR WORTH MORE THAT THAT...LET HIS ASS GO.... If he has a girlfriend and is about to break -up and your interested in getting to know him. Then by all means give him your e-mail and bounce...If he's really about to break up you will hear from him, if he's not you just dodged a bullet.
SITUATION #2: If you are in a relationship with a man and he is not pleasing you sexually....LET HIS ASS GO...Ladies listen, if you have honestly and patiently sat down with this man and explained to him what your missing and what turns you on and so forth and he has made no changes BUT STILL WANTs YOU TO PLEASE HIM SEXUALLY...HE IS SELFISH...LET HIS SELFISH ASS GO.
WHY?: Ladies a manprides himself on his sexual ability..alot of men I know who ain't worth shit..still go their dick game together...why? Cause everyman wants some pussy...Therefore if your man has not stepped up to the bat to please you. WHY ARE YOU STILL FUCKING HIM???? Why should you waste the elasticity of your Vagina fucking this man so he can cum and you be on the other side of the bed fingering yourself to get off YOU SHOULDN'T...YOU SHOULD LET HIS ASS GO......There's alot of men who will be good to you in everway you want and knock the frame out that thang in the bedroom....Don't waste your time on one who's not..FURTHERMORE DO NOT LET HIM MAKE YOU FEEL AS THOUGH YOU ARE THE REASON HE CAN'T STAY HARD OR GET IT UP OR STROKE YOU RIGHT OR WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE..you were the bomb before you met him and your still the bomb...Don't let him make you loose your self confidence....LET HIS ASS GO INSTEAD
SITUATION#3: IF YOU ARE DATING,IN A COMMITED REALTIONSHIP OR MARRIED AND YOU CANNOT COUNT ON YOUR MAN TO DO WHAT HE SAYS HE'S GONNA DO...LET HIS ASS GO...Ladies if your with a mAn who says he'll do something and seems to never get around to doing it..what good is he and really how dependable is he? If he can't take out the trash, fix your windshield wipers, give you some cash until you get paid because your strapped..what good is he? NONE. LET HIS ASS GO
WHY?: He's not dependable, you can't believe a word he says and you deserve someone who's word is their bond. You want a man who you know when he says something he means it.
SITUATION#4: If you are in an exclusive relationship or married and your man has a MYSPACE or FACEBOOK page thats STATUS READS: SINGLE...there's cause to be concerned...If you have kids with this man and he has pics of he and the kids but your missing...there's cause to be concerned..If your not his number one top friend and your his woman....there's cause to be concerened...
WHY?: A man will claim you.. He wants everybody to know that you are his girl. If he can't claim you on MYSPACE and FACEBOOK what's he calling you in the world? If he's stating he's sinle and placing pics of himself, his boys and the kids you too have together but no pics of you...he's keeping things open for other women...your not exclusive.....LET HIS ASS GO....YOU DESERVE MORE
SITUATION #5: IT IS MY OPINION THAT THERE ARE JUST SOME SITUATIONS THAT YOU SHOULD NOT GET INTO FROM THE BEGINNING...they are called RED FLAGS SITUATIONS...At this time I will name them....Ladies if any of these things are happening anytime during your realtionship...you should...what..thats right...LET HIS ASS GO!!!!
1.)He has a bestfriend thats a female and your womens intuition tells you there's more to meet the eye...LET HIS ASS GO...I know men who have female friends that their fucking on the side.
2.)If he won't even take you to WONG FOO'S CHINESE CARRY- OUT, but he has no problem getting dressed and putting MONEY in with his boys for a V.I.P table at the club. And buying drinks for his boys, himself and a bunch of skanks....LET HIS ASS GO...His priorities are all wrong.
3.) If all of a sudden your receiving private numbers and silent and then hang-up calls on your phone...there's cause to be alarmed...If your man turns his cell phone completely off when your around or on silent but he says it's so all his attention can be focused on you...Thats bullshit..LET HIS CHEATING ASS GO.....Why wait around to find out you were right about him cheating...cut it off at the pass while it's ealry before you've invested to many feelings into the relationship...LET HIS ASS GO NOW!!!!
4.) IF YOUR DATING A MAN WHO SEEMS TO NOT BE HAPPY WITH HIMSELF OR HIS OCCUPATION OR INCOME OR WHERE HIS LIVES...BASICALLY HIS CURRENT STAGE IN LIFE...LET HIS ASS GO.....If a man is not happywith himself, he will not be able to completly factor you into his life...he may fuck you..take you out sometimes..talk to you on the phone...but it will not last..He will cont. to pass in and out of your life (AGAIN BECAUSE YOU ALLOW HIM TOO) because he WANTS you but he's not READY FOR YOU....Don't be his friend, don't be his anyhting...LET HIS ASS GO...He's confused..don't let him confuse you....
5.) IF IN THE RELATIONSHIP YOU BRING UP THINGS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE YOUR PARTNER TO CHANGE. AND ALL HE CAN DO IS FLIP IT AND TELL YOU WHATS WRONG WITH YOU.....HE WILL NEVER CHANGE....LET HIS ASS GO...OBVIOUSLY HE FINDS FAULT WITH YOU..YOU FIND FAULT WITH HIM...IT WON'T WORK...BOUNCE NOW...DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME...TRUST ME... LET HIS ASS GO
SITUATION#6: It is my belief ladies that a woman should wait at least 90 days before becoming intimate with a man...however their are some exceptions...For example: If the man hasn't said he wants to stop dating and become exclusive..he gets none, whether its been 90 days or longer...If the man is not doing the important things that you need in a relationship...he should never get it...you should LET HIS ASS GO.... If the relationship is not exclusive...he gets none until it is.
WHY?: Ladies what we have between our legs is a GOD giving gift. It is a jewel and should be treated as such. Think about some of the most precious things in your life. For example: your child: would you just give he/she to anyone...Your car...would you just allow anyone to drive it.....Your expensive pair of designer shoes...would you allow anyone but yourself to wear them????? HELL NO....WHY...BECAUSE YOU CHERISH THEM..THEN LADIES WHY ARE YOU LETTING ANY MAN ON THE STREET GET INTO THE MOST PRECIOUS ITEM YOU POSSESS???
SITUATION #7: STANDARDS...Every woman should have high standards...I've watched women who have high standards meet a man and lower them just to have him...why??? FUCK HIM LADIES..YOUR THE PRIZE..he needs to rise to your standardds...If he doesn't; it's not your fault he wasn't for you...LET HIS ASS GO
WHY?: LADIES YOU HAVE NO TIME TO WASTE ON A LOSER WHEN A POTENTAIL WINNER IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER.
SITUATION#8: I've notice that alot of women feel it is their duty to cater to a man....Please believe me that Destiny's Child did not have catering to a man that doesn't do shit for you in their mind when they wrote that particular song. Yeah, there is nothing wrong with catering a man once he has claimed you as his woman.Or when you are in an exclusive relationship or better yer married. Otherwise, if he is a suitor and dating you...he should be catering you not the other way around.
WHY?: Ladies we are the prize to win. When a man meets you he wants you to want him and in order for that to happen he should be wininng and dining you. If he's not treating you like the prime assest you are..... LET HIS ASS GO.....Because he isn't on your level.
SITUATION #9: If you have been dating a man and have waited the 90 days or longer period and you both have decided to have and exclusive relatioship and it is time to have sex. You both should be tested for ALL STDS AND AIDS BEFORE ANY TYPE OF SEX GOES DOWN....IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO GET TESTED..LET HIS ASS GO.
WHY?: COME ON NOW...... YOU KNOW WHY......
SITUATION #10): There are alot of SINGLE LADIES not having sex waiting for the RIGHT ONE to come along.Their at the point where they want something real. Sex is not enough they want to make love and feel something for the man. They want exclusivity, however the road may be rocky and sometimes they may become weary. At that very momemt when she becomes weary a man from her past who you used to give it to her AMAZINGLY will resurface.He will test all that she stands for and she may become weary and think about throwing caution to the wind and sleeping with this man....LET HIS ASS GO..... Ladies YOU WILL REGRET IT...There was a reason he was in the past. God didn't want him for you. Don't mess up what you built for one night of passion. Trust me when the one that God has created for you arrives, the passion between you two will be 100 times more passionate that the man who did you amazingly in the past could ever have been.
WHY?: Ladies that man isn't for you he's to throw you off of whats really comming your way. Don't do it...You'll regret it...Hold out...Get yourself a vibrator and keep it moving...TRUST...LET HIS ASS GO
LADIES MY NEXT INSTALLMENT IS COMMING SOON.......
Ladies I decided to break down some things because it seems as though women are allowing niggas to take them for granted... I don't understand why bUt it seems as though women have forgotten that they are the QUEENS and we are the PRIZE. We are Adams right rib, we bear children into the world, we make the sex explosive. I mean the hand is ok but it aint got nothing on the vagina. But yet it seems as though men are reaping the benefits. Women are chasing their asses around. Women are asking them out on dates and paying FOR MEN!!!!! Women are begging them for sex and crying when they leave your asses. What the fuck ladies we are the PRIZE not them. So I've gathered up some situations that are indicators to LET HIS ASS GO.....
SITUATION #1: When you meet a potential suitor and he says this to you: "I have a girlfriend but were about to break up. then you say " Well here's my e-mail address NOT UR NUMBER, call me when your "REALLY" SINGLE. Or if he says: " I'm seperated right now." You say.." I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you marriage works out and hall ass out of there.
WHY?: Ladies if the man is seperated his ass is still married and the chances that he's going to actual go ahead with the divorce and be in a committed relationship with you are slim to none. What he will do if you ALLOW him is have his fun with you and then decide he's going to work it out with his wife and kids and leave you feeling like an USED ASSHOLE...LADIES YOUR WORTH MORE THAT THAT...LET HIS ASS GO.... If he has a girlfriend and is about to break -up and your interested in getting to know him. Then by all means give him your e-mail and bounce...If he's really about to break up you will hear from him, if he's not you just dodged a bullet.
SITUATION #2: If you are in a relationship with a man and he is not pleasing you sexually....LET HIS ASS GO...Ladies listen, if you have honestly and patiently sat down with this man and explained to him what your missing and what turns you on and so forth and he has made no changes BUT STILL WANTs YOU TO PLEASE HIM SEXUALLY...HE IS SELFISH...LET HIS SELFISH ASS GO.
WHY?: Ladies a manprides himself on his sexual ability..alot of men I know who ain't worth shit..still go their dick game together...why? Cause everyman wants some pussy...Therefore if your man has not stepped up to the bat to please you. WHY ARE YOU STILL FUCKING HIM???? Why should you waste the elasticity of your Vagina fucking this man so he can cum and you be on the other side of the bed fingering yourself to get off YOU SHOULDN'T...YOU SHOULD LET HIS ASS GO......There's alot of men who will be good to you in everway you want and knock the frame out that thang in the bedroom....Don't waste your time on one who's not..FURTHERMORE DO NOT LET HIM MAKE YOU FEEL AS THOUGH YOU ARE THE REASON HE CAN'T STAY HARD OR GET IT UP OR STROKE YOU RIGHT OR WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE..you were the bomb before you met him and your still the bomb...Don't let him make you loose your self confidence....LET HIS ASS GO INSTEAD
SITUATION#3: IF YOU ARE DATING,IN A COMMITED REALTIONSHIP OR MARRIED AND YOU CANNOT COUNT ON YOUR MAN TO DO WHAT HE SAYS HE'S GONNA DO...LET HIS ASS GO...Ladies if your with a mAn who says he'll do something and seems to never get around to doing it..what good is he and really how dependable is he? If he can't take out the trash, fix your windshield wipers, give you some cash until you get paid because your strapped..what good is he? NONE. LET HIS ASS GO
WHY?: He's not dependable, you can't believe a word he says and you deserve someone who's word is their bond. You want a man who you know when he says something he means it.
SITUATION#4: If you are in an exclusive relationship or married and your man has a MYSPACE or FACEBOOK page thats STATUS READS: SINGLE...there's cause to be concerned...If you have kids with this man and he has pics of he and the kids but your missing...there's cause to be concerned..If your not his number one top friend and your his woman....there's cause to be concerened...
WHY?: A man will claim you.. He wants everybody to know that you are his girl. If he can't claim you on MYSPACE and FACEBOOK what's he calling you in the world? If he's stating he's sinle and placing pics of himself, his boys and the kids you too have together but no pics of you...he's keeping things open for other women...your not exclusive.....LET HIS ASS GO....YOU DESERVE MORE
SITUATION #5: IT IS MY OPINION THAT THERE ARE JUST SOME SITUATIONS THAT YOU SHOULD NOT GET INTO FROM THE BEGINNING...they are called RED FLAGS SITUATIONS...At this time I will name them....Ladies if any of these things are happening anytime during your realtionship...you should...what..thats right...LET HIS ASS GO!!!!
1.)He has a bestfriend thats a female and your womens intuition tells you there's more to meet the eye...LET HIS ASS GO...I know men who have female friends that their fucking on the side.
2.)If he won't even take you to WONG FOO'S CHINESE CARRY- OUT, but he has no problem getting dressed and putting MONEY in with his boys for a V.I.P table at the club. And buying drinks for his boys, himself and a bunch of skanks....LET HIS ASS GO...His priorities are all wrong.
3.) If all of a sudden your receiving private numbers and silent and then hang-up calls on your phone...there's cause to be alarmed...If your man turns his cell phone completely off when your around or on silent but he says it's so all his attention can be focused on you...Thats bullshit..LET HIS CHEATING ASS GO.....Why wait around to find out you were right about him cheating...cut it off at the pass while it's ealry before you've invested to many feelings into the relationship...LET HIS ASS GO NOW!!!!
4.) IF YOUR DATING A MAN WHO SEEMS TO NOT BE HAPPY WITH HIMSELF OR HIS OCCUPATION OR INCOME OR WHERE HIS LIVES...BASICALLY HIS CURRENT STAGE IN LIFE...LET HIS ASS GO.....If a man is not happywith himself, he will not be able to completly factor you into his life...he may fuck you..take you out sometimes..talk to you on the phone...but it will not last..He will cont. to pass in and out of your life (AGAIN BECAUSE YOU ALLOW HIM TOO) because he WANTS you but he's not READY FOR YOU....Don't be his friend, don't be his anyhting...LET HIS ASS GO...He's confused..don't let him confuse you....
5.) IF IN THE RELATIONSHIP YOU BRING UP THINGS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE YOUR PARTNER TO CHANGE. AND ALL HE CAN DO IS FLIP IT AND TELL YOU WHATS WRONG WITH YOU.....HE WILL NEVER CHANGE....LET HIS ASS GO...OBVIOUSLY HE FINDS FAULT WITH YOU..YOU FIND FAULT WITH HIM...IT WON'T WORK...BOUNCE NOW...DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME...TRUST ME... LET HIS ASS GO
SITUATION#6: It is my belief ladies that a woman should wait at least 90 days before becoming intimate with a man...however their are some exceptions...For example: If the man hasn't said he wants to stop dating and become exclusive..he gets none, whether its been 90 days or longer...If the man is not doing the important things that you need in a relationship...he should never get it...you should LET HIS ASS GO.... If the relationship is not exclusive...he gets none until it is.
WHY?: Ladies what we have between our legs is a GOD giving gift. It is a jewel and should be treated as such. Think about some of the most precious things in your life. For example: your child: would you just give he/she to anyone...Your car...would you just allow anyone to drive it.....Your expensive pair of designer shoes...would you allow anyone but yourself to wear them????? HELL NO....WHY...BECAUSE YOU CHERISH THEM..THEN LADIES WHY ARE YOU LETTING ANY MAN ON THE STREET GET INTO THE MOST PRECIOUS ITEM YOU POSSESS???
SITUATION #7: STANDARDS...Every woman should have high standards...I've watched women who have high standards meet a man and lower them just to have him...why??? FUCK HIM LADIES..YOUR THE PRIZE..he needs to rise to your standardds...If he doesn't; it's not your fault he wasn't for you...LET HIS ASS GO
WHY?: LADIES YOU HAVE NO TIME TO WASTE ON A LOSER WHEN A POTENTAIL WINNER IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER.
SITUATION#8: I've notice that alot of women feel it is their duty to cater to a man....Please believe me that Destiny's Child did not have catering to a man that doesn't do shit for you in their mind when they wrote that particular song. Yeah, there is nothing wrong with catering a man once he has claimed you as his woman.Or when you are in an exclusive relationship or better yer married. Otherwise, if he is a suitor and dating you...he should be catering you not the other way around.
WHY?: Ladies we are the prize to win. When a man meets you he wants you to want him and in order for that to happen he should be wininng and dining you. If he's not treating you like the prime assest you are..... LET HIS ASS GO.....Because he isn't on your level.
SITUATION #9: If you have been dating a man and have waited the 90 days or longer period and you both have decided to have and exclusive relatioship and it is time to have sex. You both should be tested for ALL STDS AND AIDS BEFORE ANY TYPE OF SEX GOES DOWN....IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO GET TESTED..LET HIS ASS GO.
WHY?: COME ON NOW...... YOU KNOW WHY......
SITUATION #10): There are alot of SINGLE LADIES not having sex waiting for the RIGHT ONE to come along.Their at the point where they want something real. Sex is not enough they want to make love and feel something for the man. They want exclusivity, however the road may be rocky and sometimes they may become weary. At that very momemt when she becomes weary a man from her past who you used to give it to her AMAZINGLY will resurface.He will test all that she stands for and she may become weary and think about throwing caution to the wind and sleeping with this man....LET HIS ASS GO..... Ladies YOU WILL REGRET IT...There was a reason he was in the past. God didn't want him for you. Don't mess up what you built for one night of passion. Trust me when the one that God has created for you arrives, the passion between you two will be 100 times more passionate that the man who did you amazingly in the past could ever have been.
WHY?: Ladies that man isn't for you he's to throw you off of whats really comming your way. Don't do it...You'll regret it...Hold out...Get yourself a vibrator and keep it moving...TRUST...LET HIS ASS GO
LADIES MY NEXT INSTALLMENT IS COMMING SOON.......
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Permalink Reply by Mz. HerShee on -
Well I'll be dayumeddddddddddddddddddddddd
...............I'm so all for this ................ I love it ... so many I've done. (meaning I let they(his) AZ go, for).
Gul do you know me. .............. hahaha
My past is all up in this post ..............hahahahha
Pattin myself on the back for ALREADY takin these steps in most these situations)
Yelpppp I let they az go .............. whooohooooo
However the last one ... that great whodini from the past
Where was this post when this nukka came BACK into my life.
Only diff in that situation is that we hadn't had sex in the past .... dammitttttt haha
I see a T-shirt for the summa ..................... Holllaaaaaaaaaaaaa
LET HIS AZ GO!!!
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Permalink Reply by NICOLE GILBERT on -
Thank you, I'm gLAD you enjoyed the post and I'm even happier that you have LET HIS ASS GO!!!LOL A T-Shirty...I love that idea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mz. HerShee said:Well I'll be dayumeddddddddddddddddddddddd
...............I'm so all for this ................ I love it ... so many I've done. (meaning I let they(his) AZ go, for).
Gul do you know me. .............. hahaha
My past is all up in this post ..............hahahahha
Pattin myself on the back for ALREADY takin these steps in most these situations)
Yelpppp I let they az go .............. whooohooooo
However the last one ... that great whodini from the past
Where was this post when this nukka came BACK into my life.
Only diff in that situation is that we hadn't had sex in the past .... dammitttttt haha
I see a T-shirt for the summa ..................... Holllaaaaaaaaaaaaa
LET HIS AZ GO!!!
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Permalink Reply by Keyshia on
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True, the dating standards have went way down, that sleezy guys think they are hot prizes. Ladies we do have to be tougher.
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Permalink Reply by chzz on -
On point.When a man says "I'm separated" it means "I'm married" and you better believe him.
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Permalink Reply by Darrell Joyce on -
I read most of it, but i realized one thing: your solution is simply to let him go. Which, i cannot disagree with...but where do you educate the women? In my books, i speak with a sharp tongue also, but i did my best to offer up reasons, solutions and advice. True, women with the issues you mentioned are goin through things with these men, but why? I'll give you this one for free...why try to fix the men when anything done repetitively often leads back to you, the choices you make and a denial of culpability. Many of the women who read my books stopped reading halfway through chapters-not wantin to get to the root of the issue because i never sugarcoated anything. The problem with black men is internal, inside that black male. But, his sexual prowess among black women is amplified, but never recognized as the problem.
Two words for women you speak of: personal accountability.
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Permalink Reply by Stephanie Y. Rodriguez on -
I like this cause you were real....that's what's up.
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Permalink Reply by NICOLE GILBERT on
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ABSOULUTELY...but regardless of who you are man or women. You DO NOT have to accept disrespect. Everyone deserves to be treated special and if your not getting IT regardless of your situation. You need to leave. POINT BLANK
AC said:One question: Don't you have to be as good as what you desire?
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Permalink Reply by NICOLE GILBERT on
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This is true and by telling the women to let, Let him go." I'm telling them to take accountability. When my book is published ( I'm working on the book now), I will include solutions and I will send you a copy.
Darrell Joyce said:I read most of it, but i realized one thing: your solution is simply to let him go. Which, i cannot disagree with...but where do you educate the women? In my books, i speak with a sharp tongue also, but i did my best to offer up reasons, solutions and advice. True, women with the issues you mentioned are goin through things with these men, but why? I'll give you this one for free...why try to fix the men when anything done repetitively often leads back to you, the choices you make and a denial of culpability. Many of the women who read my books stopped reading halfway through chapters-not wantin to get to the root of the issue because i never sugarcoated anything. The problem with black men is internal, inside that black male. But, his sexual prowess among black women is amplified, but never recognized as the problem.
Two words for women you speak of: personal accountability.
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Permalink Reply by NICOLE GILBERT on
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Thanks darling. I'm glad you enjoyed the snippet. I hope you enjoy the book as well.
Stephanie Y. Rodriguez said:I like this cause you were real....that's what's up.
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Permalink Reply by Darrell Joyce on
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By telling women to "Let him go!" is like telling them the problem is solved once they dump him. The problem isn't the men you listed, but the women who keep choosing men like this. I know women better than anyone will ever give me credit for, and the one thing they all need is a moment of clarity where they actually ask themselves what they did wrong. That, my friend, is rare. Women rarely think they have much to do with failed relationships, their children being worthless or how men view and treat their gender as a whole. In short, most feel nothing is their fault. Sounds like a sweeping generalization, but you'd be surprised. I worked for 4 years on my books, and inteview soooooooo many people, and women rarely admitted fault or culpability....even the ones who admitted to cheating. They'd say things like "He made me cheat. He never paid attentiont to me, so i went to someone who did." All kinds of crap like that where, even if it's the 4th guy to go upside their heads, they dump him, and pick another abusive partner. So, when you say "Let him go!" be sure you make it clear what you mean.
NICOLE GILBERT said:This is true and by telling the women to let, Let him go." I'm telling them to take accountability. When my book is published ( I'm working on the book now), I will include solutions and I will send you a copy.
Darrell Joyce said:I read most of it, but i realized one thing: your solution is simply to let him go. Which, i cannot disagree with...but where do you educate the women? In my books, i speak with a sharp tongue also, but i did my best to offer up reasons, solutions and advice. True, women with the issues you mentioned are goin through things with these men, but why? I'll give you this one for free...why try to fix the men when anything done repetitively often leads back to you, the choices you make and a denial of culpability. Many of the women who read my books stopped reading halfway through chapters-not wantin to get to the root of the issue because i never sugarcoated anything. The problem with black men is internal, inside that black male. But, his sexual prowess among black women is amplified, but never recognized as the problem.
Two words for women you speak of: personal accountability.
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