Why me ?
I have been in this relationship for about 8years. And he did me like how greg did max on living single. when I came home from a furnnel he was gone and no one said they seen him leave. He took his stuff over to his aunt apt she lives two doors down from me. she claim she didn't know he left. Didn't tell me where or who he left with. Should I go on with my life. or should I wait? Im suppose to be moving in a couple of months. to a new county. Im not going to leave his aunt any information as to where Im moving to or what job I have.
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Permalink Reply by Charae on -
While you definately deserve a face to face explanation. I believe you should go on with your life. Wait for what and for how long ? Actions speak louder than words and for whatever reason, he's telling you he's not commited. A real man doesn't walk out like that.
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Permalink Reply by Nickie Sanders on -
Jahvonnelove,
I agree with Charae, move on with your life. Just like she said, a real man would definitely not have left like that. You have already given enough and that was eight years and if he meant well, he would have made more of a committment to you and your relationship. Who knows what God has in store for you? You serve a purpose in life so continue your pursuit of your purpose and be happy. Let him be where ever he is, God has a plan for YOU!!!!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Valerie on -
Men who truly want to be with us do not pack their stuff and leave while we are away. Count your blessings to be able to move on and leave this train wreck of a man to some other woman who doesn't want anything better for herself. Be well my Sister!
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Permalink Reply by jahvonnelove on -
I really do appreciate what adivce that you'll have given me after he left I got a better job with benefits. Now the aunt is causing me problem she just keep throwing his name in my conversation with other people. I use to take her around and now since that day he left she has been giving me the cold shoulder. treating me bad she is 50 years old and hangs around 30's and 20's year old women. telling them they shouldn't talk to me. My neighbors do everything they can not to speak to me. She is making a big problem for me I am glad god is giving me a second chance out of life so I can move on with my self.
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Permalink Reply by Juanette B. on -
As hard as it is, you need to leave his aunt alone as well. She seems to be a link between you and the ex and when you limit your interaction with her, then I believe you can move on.
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Permalink Reply by aloysius wendo on -
you gotta to move on i guessing u have no kids 2gether since it was not mentioned and also yu have to leave the aunt alone she seems like a connection btween the 2 of you for what ever reason n agree you should leave no contact info with her either ..but at the end of the day you gotta move on baby girl .......there is someone out there jus for you ..i promise
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Permalink Reply by Valerie James on -
Its hard, but you have to move on! For some reason a lot men feel like B.S. wins the girl, not true,it not fair to steal someones heart by lying or misleading them. Most of us are sincere about wanting a relationship, someone you can be a wife to, someone you can love and he can love you back. What happen to the real men (hey fellows you have to call them like you see them). It should be considered a crime!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Princess101uk on -
HE'S TOLD YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO HEAR, IT'S UP TO YOU IF YOU CHOOSE TO LISTEN'......don't move to another Country, RUN , as quickly as you can!!!!
The Aunt's mean and thank God the Lord daily you didn't marry him, it was a very lucky escape. Go on, spread your wings and start afresh, God had someone better planned for you
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Permalink Reply by Jae on -
Hell why should you care. He dropped you like a bad habit. I wonder Why did God make us so forgiving, loving & sensitive????
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Permalink Reply by Princess101uk on
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@ Jae, LMBAO---laughing so hard I have belly ache!!! I think she meant funeral. She was upset, behave!!!
Jae said:What is a furnnel? I'm just asking.
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Permalink Reply by Angela on -
I think you should go on. He is not worth of your love and commitment if he is to selfish to be a man and just communicate his feeling about the situation therefore, he is not the one for you.
I have been married for 10 years and I have children not by my husband but he was there since my son was 8 months old and now my son is 9 years old. He have been that father figure up until he decided that I was to crazy to be with him. I work and care of my children and go to church on Sunday and I have tried to be there for my husband. It was always a issue if it was the children it was money or sex or communcation or something. I am 37 and I seem lost with him I don't know where I should go do or anything anymore. I had a child at 19yrs old and I just know how to be a mother and that it all. So, don't feel like u own him anything he left not you so he is not a man anyway. Life is full of surprise people are in your life for a season a reason or a lifetime.
Jesus Love U.
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